The biggest problem I have with my mother is that she likes to involve other people, especially other family members, in my personal business. I will gladly let the whole of the Internet know that I have a tumor, but my family? They don’t even want to get to know me when I’m healthy, if I were to die, they are Not welcome at the funeral home nor do I even want them at my hospital bedside. I do not like them. They have been nothing but cruel to me my entire life, and very rarely has a good word about me escaped their lips. When I was coughing up blood, my eldest sister said that God was punishing me for my transgressions and my heart trouble was just the guilt I was feeling over my sins. My youngest sister, when my mother told her (against my wishes!!!!) that I had a tumor, explained to me that she hopes the cancer kills me.
I repeatedly tell my mother to keep my family out of my business and she repeatedly refuses to listen.